Eating is an adventure…
It might be a simple meal of roasted sweet potatoes dug up from beneath mounds of smoky embers, eaten while squatting on the ground in the highlands of West Papua, Indonesia…
Or a 10-course culinary extravaganza in a red velvet-lined banquet hall in China, where the meal always ends with an obligatory platter piled high with noodles. Even though one usually passes comfortably full by the 5th or 6th course, the noodles are never refused, because noodles symbolize long life. And nobody wants to pass on a serving of deliciously long life…
Or my personal favorite, a walking street food buffet down the alleyways of Seoul, South Korea, with Kimbap (Korean version of sushi rolls), spicy Ddeok-Bokki (Korean rice cake, not like “rice cake” as we know it, but closer to a chewy, gluten-free gnocchi in an addictively spicy sauce), sweet Hoddeok (flatbread stuffed with cinnamon and brown sugar, fried on a griddle), and savory Pajeon (scallion pancake). I should create a gluten-free scallion pancake recipe for you someday. Mmmmm! Scallion pancakes are a delight that nobody should have to miss out on.
Food is more than just filling your stomach, and refusing food is more than simply saying, “No, thanks.” Even when language differences prevent all but the most basic conversation, food speaks volumes.
Unfortunately dietary restrictions have a way of drowning out this culinary conversation and bringing the mealtime adventure to an unceremonious halt.
Since giving up gluten and other foods earlier this year, I generally avoid eating out, preferring to prepare all my food in the safety of my own home. The extra work is well worth it to me, and I go to great lengths to create food that is adventurous, delicious, and yet safe to enjoy.
But the truth of the matter is that it’s hard to shut yourself away in your own little world all of the time, and its nice once in awhile to go out and eat with friends and family, and have somebody else prepare all the food, wash all the dishes, and so on.
So from time to time I take that risk. Recently I ate at Pho Ngo Gai, a new Vietnamese restaurant in San Bernardino, California (1033 North Waterman Ave. Ste. J). I pointed out the lemongrass tofu on the menu, and asked the waitress if I could have something like that, except without wheat/gluten, soy/tofu, sugar, egg, peanuts, and corn. Just the veggies and whatever sauce they could prepare. Without missing a beat, she checked with the kitchen, and sure enough, they prepared a delicious dish off the menu, just for me. One of the few times I’ve eaten out with absolutely no negative reactions.
It’s easiest to eat out gluten-free in places where they make their food from scratch and don’t depend on pre-made sauces and dishes. There have actually been a couple times at restaurants that pre-make food when I’ve had to simply walk away because there was absolutely nothing available for me to safely eat. Calling ahead when possible is always a good idea. I could have saved myself the trips.
When dining at ethnic restaurants, sometimes the language barrier can be a problem in communicating dietary restrictions. It helps immensely when the staff speaks and understands English well, like they did at Pho Ngo Gai, or if you are able to bring along someone who speaks the language.
I’ve been there, done that with varying degrees of success trying to explain what I can’t eat to waiters who depend on English-speaking diners pointing at the number of the dish they want to order. CeliacTravel.com has printable restaurant cards in 51 languages that can solve this problem.
So take precautions, be safe, and enjoy your adventures in gluten-free eating!
How do you deal with eating out gluten-free?